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"Dear Mavis, I am a 30 yr old i have 2 children which i love to bits just wondering how would i meet simular men in same situation as it would be cool to be able to talk to another gay man who would understand what i am going through i have told friends and family now that i am gay and very proud too has taken time though "
anon

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"Dear Mavis, I have recently started dating a friend of mine, and this is my first female relationship, and it seems like one to last for a while. I am very close to my mother and tell her most things. However, my sexuality has been a topic that she's avoided like the plague. She simply refuses to talk about it. While she is not generally homophobic, she doesn't want it 'in her back yard' so to speak. Now I don't know what to do: if I should tell her, and how, this time, I can make her listen."
Minty

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"Dear Mavis, i want to tell you something i think i am gay because i ave gone through puberty and i am attracted to men and boys especially my pe teacher mr clarke what should i do luv from joseph radford and actually only 14 "
joe radford

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"Dear Mavis, I practically Live with my partner he's 27 and i'm 21, been together about 11 months. He's constantly on these sex chat websites sending pictures and msgs to other people. Its tearing me up inside. He says he loves me and i believe him but this is tearing me up inside ... Am i wrong?"
MMM

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"Dear Mavis, hi when im horny and masturbate i always think about having sex watch porn and sometimes even look at gay porn and would actually have sex with a man at that time. but then when ive masturbated and clean up i think that i wouldnt even go near a man and wouldnt dream of having sex with one. i dont know why this happens it seems i only like watching cock when im wanking can you help me and tell me whats happening"
jamie

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"Dear Mavis, i'm 18 and met my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. He's a bit younger than me and he's getting some terrible stick from school for being bisexual. He was walking back from Tae Kwon Do and people even shouted abuse at him on the streets, i want to help him but i dont know how to, i live quite far away, though we do meet now and then. I'm worried for his mental health, he says he has to go 'numb' sometimes, hes tried to take his life once before he met me, i am geniunly really worried. He won't see anyone at school about it as he doesnt want to be seen as using teachers as protection. Hope this isn't too long, thanks."
Liam

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"Dear Mavis,Hi i need some help with this situation i have. I ama 17 yearold lad from wales and work partime on saturdays. Everysaturday outside my work there is a market, ther eis this boy about by age working on the fruit an dveg market stall, the boy usually comes in to me store to buy Cigarettes, i am not sure if he is gay but i am attracted to him , he is a really nice person i have spoke to him before in passing in the strett he asked 'have i been busy today' refering to me working in the store, then a few weeks ago he came in again like usaull to by cigarettes. this time i did not notice him in the que and walked past , as i walked past i noticed he was there looking at me. as i looked up at him he looked away. I really like this boy and cant stop thinking about him, iw ant to do soemthing to let him knwo without making a prat of myself. I done even know if he is gay or bi. Any sugestions of what i can do, do you think he likes me from what i have told you? "
Chris

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"Pete, I have emailed Mavis with my contact details. Paul."
Paul in Minehead

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"Dear Mavis, I have forllen in love with my best ,8t he his gay but he as a boy friend but what can i do i can stop thinking about him but he says he loves me but it is just as m8t what can i do help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thanks Mav"
tjd_18 - Swansea

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"Dear Mavis, Have u ever been to an OUT nite?...x"
SP, Bridgwater

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"Dear Mavis, Paul, email mavis cos I can't figure out who you are on this thing!"
Pete, Somerset

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"Dear Mavis, I wish that Pete would contact me then. He sounds like he has his head screwed on right!"
Paul in Somerset

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"Dear Mavis, I think Paul in Somerset has not been messaging the right people. I am 24 but my ideal man would be aged between 28 and 38. Men in their 30s are really attractive. I would love to meet a man, in somerset, in his 30s to date and have some fun with."
Pete, Somerset

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"Dear Mavis,Why is it that a lot of the young gay guys are so clicky and bitchy towards any older guys that approach them. They dont know how lucky they are to have such a wonderful thing as the internet to find like minded lads. I only wish that I had it available to me 15 years ago. I think they must be who the Daffyd character in Little Britain is based on, wanting to be 'the only gay in the village' or town in the case of Taunton!. The only thing that I find solace in is that they themselves will one day be in their thirties and realise what it feels like to be shunned in this way. "
Paul, Somerset

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"Dear Mavis, Where are all the men in this social armpit? I really want a boyfriend but I only seem to find one night stands and I am sick of them. I want someone I can be with for ever. HELP"
Single and Lonely

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"Dear Mavis, ok here's my problem; im a 17yr old straight cating gay guy and i'm in the closet. Im terrified of coming out because i know everyone will judge me. For a long time iv'e just tried denying who I am but its caved in. Now i wan't to meet men but how the hell can I?! My younger siblings are horrified by gay people as is one of my best friends so what should i do??"
Confused :S

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"Dear Mavis,I find a guy in my school to be attractive... he seems kinda gay but Im not sure. What do I do?"
Special, Special Place

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"Dear Mavis, i'm a gay 20 year old female from wiltshire, i'm finding it hard to find anywhere to go locally where i can meet other gay people, i don't have that much confidence really either? um what shall i do "
lonely fem

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"Dear Mavis, hi mavis. its the person that sent the letter below. dont reply to that letter because i xasked that girl out last nite and she rejected me :( oh well i still really like her what should i do. ps she rejected me because we were such good friends. could tht help any>?>?"
Help me please!!!!!

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"Dear Mavis, I am 31 and have only just acknowledged that I get turned on by men. I was abused as a child and though I am on the whole comfortable with the idea of being gay I sometimes wonder about it not being normal. There was a lot of homophobic attitudes at home. When I went to a gay club I felt a bit uncomfortable about being chatted up but when I was chatted up at work by a really dominant man I was like putty in his hands. On the other hand, I haven't had much experience with women either, despite their making it obvious they like me I can't ask them out. I've enjoyed encounters with both men and women although I get aroused more easily by men. Any advice?"
Flirty Bertie, Glamorgan

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"Dear Mavis, I've finally found someone who seems really nice but gives me reason not to trust them, I really want it to work but find it hard to trust someone who gives me sooo much reason not too! Now someone else has entered my life as fried but I feel they want more and if I was single I would jump at the chance to be with this new person but cannot as I'm in a relationship but feel that this new one is xtremely trust worthy, what to do what to do I'm so confused and don't want to hurt anyone including myself!!!! "
Tainted Love

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"Dear Mavis, do you exist anymore? why are you taking so long to write your replies? Cmon "
Boy 4 pele

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"Dear Mavis,I've been "Out" for years now, to family and friends. You know how word gets around about someone being gay and I have had and still do occasionally have so much verbal abuse from people when I'm on a night out with my friends. My friends are great and stand up for me but now I'd rather not go out as I feel my friends go out to have a good time not stand up for me when trouble starts!! It's made me a bit of a hermit really, and although it's only ever got violent once, I'm afraid of this happening again! what can I do??"
Bay Boi

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"Dear Mavis, what happend to my life? I constantly feel sad, depressed and lonely. I find it real hard to trust anyone, because every time i have it's all gone wrong. I feel at 35 that everything is over, my life is stagnant, uninteresting and lonely. I dont enjoy pubs and clubs so much, and there seems little else to do that involves other gay guys apart from the usual scene thing. And why do gay men seem to have a problem with honesty and commitment? thanx."
someone, somerset.

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"Dear Mavis, I cant read signals very well...there's this girl i've met, +we've become m8's, but i wouldnt mind more...we get on well,+ i flirt with her, and i think she flirts wit me...but i dont want 2read 2much in2 it, yet i dont want 2miss out on the possiblity of summit wit her..eek!...any advice?"
Miss D, Somerset

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"Dear Mavis, Hey there mavis, I'm a 22 year old gay male who hasnt really had any relationship experience, and get scared when relationships come my way. How am i ever going to meet anyone if i'm like this all the bloody time? And is there ever going to be a man who's going to patient enough to put up with it? I just want a siple relationship but the other thing that bugs me aswell is that gay relationships seem tpo be sooooo materialistic,am I ever going to have a relationship or be single for ever? "
Whateva Happened To FayRay?

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"Dear Mavis - I have had a few relationships with other guys over the years, my last one being three years long. All have ended because I have found out that I have been cheated on - my partners secretly meeting up with other blokes for a quickie...... I have been in my current reletionship for about 7 months now and I love him to bits. I don't think he would ever cheat on me because he is so very honest about so many things, but then I didn't think the others would of cheated on me either. Being hurt in the past makes totally trusting someone so difficult - I don't want to be a jealous + suspicuious boyfriend. What should I do??? (Wht do so many gay men find it impossible to be faithfull???)"
B P from Taunton

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"Dear Mavis,I can't seem to meet anyone, I long 4 a long term one 2 one relationship. I go to gay bars and get eyed up alot, but they only seem to want me for one night stands and I just don't want that! what can I do ??? Help x x x x "
Mr J T

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"Dear Mavis, Why is it at the tender age of 29 do I feel totally synically when it comes to Gay Men, and the older i get, the more and more i can see myself as Victor Meldrew?. Is this a natural thing? or do i need help? "
Victor 29, Bristol

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"Dear Mavis, i have been with my boyfriend for a while now, and we are so happy together! I am thinking of asking him to move in with me, or for us to get a house or flat, do you think this is a wise idea?"
J, taunton

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"Dear Mavis,hi hope your ok! i am currently dating an older women 16 years older than i am. Its going really well and she wants me to marry her i cant help but wonder are we moving to fast?"
E, B-O-S

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"Dear Mavis, My best friend (and ex) keeps running off with a transexual called **** from Minehead. He has told me that **** often physically, verbally and mentally abuses him. We originally stopped sleeping together over a year ago because he said he wasn't gay, but he obviously is at least unsure of his sexuality. We didn't even have an argument (WE NEVER DO!) but last week he just went out and never came back and I don't know what to do next. Now I can't contact him at all as he is ignoring all of my calls. Can you please help me? I am at my wits end! ***Names removed for legal reasons***"
Richard, Somerset

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"dear mavis, i would just like to say thankyou for last nite, you were amazing, "
mavis's bitch

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"Dear Mavis,"
Someone, Somerset

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"Dear Mavis, I really fancy this lad who works in Tescos in Taunton, but I can't seem to get him to notice me. I have spoken to him once or twice in there when I have made enquiries and he looks so sexy in his work clothes! I have also seen him at OUT. The problem is I am quite a bit older than he is. Should I just try to not think about him? Can you help????"
P, Somerset

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"Dear Gran, PLEASE stop referring to me in this article its Soooo embarrassing, you make me sound like a slag! Ps gone over richards tonight, dont make tea for me, or wait up."
Bradley

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"Dear Mavis, please help me, im so confused, i want to find the address for the restraunt where 'OUT' has the meals and stuff but i cant find it on the site. Please help."
a, taunton

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"Dear Mavis, my boyfriend no longer wans to talk to me or even stay over he says he loves me but is sleepin with other guys what should i do?"
ANON Taunton

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"Dear Mavis,I think Im finally past it ! Ok, So Im 33, but im still relatively good looking, slim toned and gernerally fabulous, but i dont seem to be able to find a man that wants anything more than a one night stand ! Please help me find my Mr Right !"
Mr monogamy, taunton

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"Dear Mavis, Why is it that so many gay men only go for stereotypes and are afraid to try something a bit non conformist or diferent from the latest GT coverboy when it comes to boyfriends? I notice that our Lesbian friends seem to embrace all shapes, sizes, colours, creeds and dress styles? Are gay men really that transparent?"
A change is as good a rest appearing at a venue ne

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"Dear Mavis, If you happen to contact Mark from Exeter, can you please ask him how he measures his penis: Along the upper side, or along the underside? It is usual to gain a couple of inches by using the latter method, but that is cheating! Lots of guys, usually around 18/19 y.o. ring me at my Massage Room and say the same thing. I always ask THEM the same question. I have yet to see one that size on THESE premises!!!!!!!"
Laurie. Oake, near Taunton.

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"Dear Mavis, I am nearly 25 and not out. I know people think Im gay but dont know what to do?"
ANON TAunton

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"Dear Mavis, I think my cock is too long its 8 1/2 inches and no one will do anal with me? Is it because its too big, or could it be something else? What is the right length?"
Mark , exeter

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"Dear Mavis, My problem is that I do not get many gay guys to visit me for a massage. They are nearly all married/partnered/engaged/girlfriended, etc. What am I doing wrong?"
Laurie, Oake near Taunton.

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"Dear Mavis, In case you want to know more about me, please look at my website: ."
Laurie, Oake near Taunton.

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